It
has certainly become
very easy today to say ‘I love you’.
It just seems like it
is hanging loosely at the tip of one’s tongue, and there it just slips every
time.
As
easy, subtle and free flowing ‘love’ is, In relationships, it becomes blocked,
suffocated. Then we start feeling there is no love, yes because, we tried to
change the core of love, hence no love!
I am
no relationship expert. But I wonder, if two people can share the common
feeling of love and be in love with each other, then what goes wrong when it
comes to sharing the life with each other in true harmony? After all, we say
that love is life and life is love, so when love happens, why life doesn’t happen?
Why does it go for a toss?
In
all these years that I have lived, met all kinds of people, heard all kinds of
love stories and all the experiences, one thing I know, for me, Love is
courage. If you don’t have the courage to go till the end and then it is just
disgraceful to say ‘love’
Yes,
I agree, there are factors involved, situations and sometimes one stands too
much to loose. I understand all this. But again, you have loved, c’mon, its
Love, you owe it to love. Give it a shot, have the courage to stand for it, let
alone be the result. Atleast try! There are times, when one just outgrows love,
and in such cases, its best to let it be. But otherwise, if you say, you love
and you have no courage to respect your love, then its not your cup of tea, you
are just toying with yourself, trying to feel good about being in love.
A hopeless
believer in love that I am, I see the darkness very closely, but still I choose
to believe in the magic and goodness of love! And I admire all those people out
there in love, who under all circumstances believed and stayed in love!
