Destiny - this or that?

So how does this work? Is everything pre-decided? As in absolutely everything? Like is it decided that I will be writing this post on my blog? Is every moment pre decided?
Or is it like every day or every fortnight?
How do we know what exactly are we destined to?
I am a huge destiny believer, I go to astrologers, tarot readers, palmist & every that person who would claim to know my destiny!
Some people consider it as an escape route, but for me it works!
This is what my funda is:-

The all mighty has everything pre-planned for us, but then again it wont be fun enough for him to look down and know everything is happening exactly the way he had planned, so here is how he has planned his entertainment! He has kept two paths for each of us, and if we choose a particular path, again there are two ways!
So basically its fun for him to watch us choose the path and also there is some suspense as in to, which path will we take! And on these selected paths we meet people and then our destiny and theirs get linked!

So you see, its upto us to make the choices, I wont say right choice, bcoz right or wrong is very subjective. I want to say to you all that never discourage yourself from doing something you want to, and your destiny doesn’t allow.Just remember there are two paths, you never know which path is predicted by the mortals!
The bottom line being, the structure is ready, now its for you to decide the interiors! I am having a great experience designing my interiors and meeting the people I love! My destiny has given a lot that I wanted, and I am waiting for a lot more, which I believe I will get some day!

Where are you...

I believed, I knew
It was pure, it was true,
If this is how it was, then now where are you?
Those whispers in my ears,
Those hugs when me in fear
Those pecks on my cheeks,
Those naughty looks, those lovely flowers,
Those romance in rain showers
In the nights that never end, I dream
I dream of the promises you made,
I dream of the purple walls
Which witnessed the love we made,
I wake up realizing, I never slept
I ask you now, and I will ask you forever
The promises made, why weren’t they kept?
Where were you, when all night I wept?
I believed, I knew
It was pure, it was true,
If this is how it was, then now where are you?

She is the joy

[dedicated to penaaz]

Maybe a companion, maybe a friend
Maybe dear, maybe dearest.
Vivacious smile, pulsating vibe,
Along with her she carries a bundle of joy
Pretty she is as a Barbie toy,
Fond of talking, is never coy
Saccharine is her natter, pure is her heart
Simple is her going, yet apart from the rest
Pain she will disguise , will give a tough test
Happiness n peace is all I wish for her
For you I know will have everything the best
Maybe a companion, maybe a friend
Maybe dear, maybe dearest.

And its till eternity...

And its till eternity
Its him, its her and its me
Together we are and will always be
For world, Best friends are we three
Do not label us, I say,
The smile of one, twinkles in the others’ eye
The tears of one, rolls down the cheek of other
Its him who yells, its me who cries, its her who resolves.
Together we are and will always be
you are my 1st love, I tease
You are mine too, he winks
Saxy I call him, tall he stands with his dazzling smile
With him I can walk a thousand mile.
She holds the strings of my life,
Fun we make, we are husband- wife.
Jess I call her, dusky is her color, pretty is her face
With her I can sprint the life race
Together we are and will always be.
Moist are my eyes as I pen my thoughts
For it’s the two of you, my life belongs
I am and will be a part of all your rights and wrongs
Lucky I am , I feel. Blessed I am, I feel
For the world is filled with hatred and greed
My world with the two of you is a treat!
Together we are and will always be
And its till eternity.

In those woods...

There is an emptiness, there is some sadness,
Lingering somewhere deep down, there is a hope,
Now lost, now dead, once it was alive, now decayed.
A promise to myself, will hence not get
lost in camouflaged woods,
In forbidden boundaries will not wander,
For, I lost, I lost a lot,
My smile never reaches my heart,
My happiness never reaches its peak,
The tears dried off, but stained my cheeks.
It was in those woods, that I left my soul,
It was in those woods, that I left my essence.
I still am unchanged, just with a hope,
Now lost, now dead, once it was alive, now decayed.

Purple says...

With things falling in place now, you suddenly realize, how much of yourself have you actually lost in this process, My friend Purple, says that the most obvious mistake we make is of not knowing the true colors of people around us, as she says, that she has had certain realizations in her life and she wanted me to share it with you all, so here it is what Purple says:-

He aint tall, he aint prince charming,
Doesn’t ride a horse either,
But laughs with me when i laugh and holds me when i shed tears,
When things are topsy-turvey, he smiles and assures that best is yet to come,
He finds you beautiful when u wake up with messed hair, and half open eyes!
Its he, who makes you feel like a princess, even when you are in rags!
He is not the one you had craved for, but he is the one who will fulfil all cravings of yours,
To a person like this i say, i might not be madly in love with you, but i would stand by you in all your foolishness! I might not say you, that i love you the most, but i will hug you like no one else, I might not be able to give you what you deserve, but i will give you all that i have,
because for me, your that pillar, which i want to lean on forever, your that smile,
which i want on my face forever, its your fingers, when they fill the gap between my fingers,
i feel the most secured, the most loved and at peace!

25 and 55...

31st May 2010 was the celebrations of my ‘Ma – baba’[grandparents] and my chacha-chachi’s wedding anniversary! Ma-baba finished their 55 years of marriage together and chacha – chachi’s was the 25th one!
It was amazing to see Ma, looking beautiful I n her green saree, standing beside my baba, looking handsome as ever in a suit! I kept thinking, this couple has shared 55 years of their life together and they are celebrating it today! On the other hand when my chacha- chachi were once again exchanging garlands after 25 years, they still looked like any new couple getting married!
I have seen both of these couple since my childhood, and they have beautifully carved their marriage through thick and thin! I personally am scared of the ‘M’ word! Its too huge for me, but looking at them, the thought that marriage is indeed beautiful![ that doesn’t mean, that I am ready to plunge into it..!]
By writing this post, I just want to say, that its absolutely wonderful to see such beautiful marriages and adorable couple around! It brings a smile on my face and also brings back the believe in marriage…[even though if its just for a while…it makes a difference!]
I hope and pray that everybody, experiences a blissful marriage!