Wednesday, March 10, 2010

Love or Life...?


This is the favorite topic of discussion for my best friend and me. We do not have any arguements, or win-lose situations as such...but, she is always very sure of what she has to say, because it works for her and she is HAPPY with it...[she believes in life..]

On the other hand, me who lives in my own fantasy land,believes in LOVE...[sweep you off your feet kinds] but some how I am not able to put my point across well, because unfortunately it hasnt worked for me... but c'mon its LOVE...i mean if love is life...then why the question' love or life?' and if at all this question rises, then? then what?


These are my questions:-

1. Isnt love supposed to be the best thing to happen to any one?

2. How far is one supposed to compromise with ones identity/principles in love?

3. If one really has to compromise in the above mentioned attributes, then is it worth it?

4. How important is compatibility, or rather what is more important love or compatibility?

5. If not compatible, should the couple still stay together for the sake of love?

6. if not peaceful, then is it worth? or should one keep trying? but try till when?


The day i get answers to these queries, i will be able to justify my percpective, till then should i believe what my best friend says...'If love doesnt let you live, then let go of it..'....really? let go of LOVE?

4 comments:

  1. Love is a part of life.... they need each other to survive

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  2. hhmmm....
    thats so you.....!!!
    i still believe that if its real love it will make life easier than difficult..... if it makes survival tougher then aint we better without it.....
    life and love should go hand in hand and if i had to choose i would choose life cos i wont kill myself for love...
    and as far as adjusting goes .... adjustment is good.... not compromise ... not for me atleast.....
    i dont wanna lose myself in the process of keeping some1
    ....
    i know our fundas wont match...
    i just hope that u get a guy whom u fall in love with and who also makes life worth it....
    love u loads swthrt....
    all the best....
    i hope ur would be guy is reading all this... and ur questions end soon....

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  3. I'l say:-
    Letting go doesn’t mean giving up, but rather accepting that there are things that cannot be

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  4. Some think it's holding on that makes one strong; sometimes it's letting go.

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